From Au Pair to Student: Navigating Life in Denmark

Arrival in Denmark as an Au Pair

Hello, I'm Maria, a 22-year-old from Jakarta, Indonesia. I arrived in Copenhagen, Denmark, in early 2021 through an au pair program. The excitement of living in a new country was overwhelming, but I quickly realized that the experience wasn't without its challenges. I was hosted by a Danish family with two young children. The initial months were filled with cultural shocks and adjusting to the cold weather.

Challenges with the Host Family

At first, things went smoothly, but as the months passed, I encountered several issues with the host family. There were misunderstandings regarding my work hours and responsibilities. My contract stated a maximum of 30 hours per week, but I often found myself working more, without additional pay. It was difficult to negotiate since I feared losing my place in the program. Communication was crucial, and eventually, I had a candid discussion with my host family, which improved the situation. However, it was clear that staying long-term wasn't feasible.

Transition to a Student Visa

I decided to switch to a student visa to pursue higher education in Denmark. The application process was daunting and costly. I had to prove my financial stability, which meant showing I had funds to cover my tuition and living expenses. The waiting period for the visa approval was nerve-wracking and took longer than expected, nearly three months.

Tips for Future Migrants

1. Understand Your Contract Thoroughly: Before signing any au pair contract, ensure you understand every detail, including work hours, duties, and compensation. Don’t hesitate to clarify any vague terms with your host family.

2. Prepare Financially for Transition: If you're considering switching visas, like moving from an au pair to a student visa, start saving early. The costs can be significant, and you will need proof of financial means.

3. Learn the Local Language: Danish might be challenging, but learning even basic phrases can significantly improve your integration and help in daily interactions.

Looking Ahead

Although the transition was stressful, it was worth it. I'm now enrolled in a business management program in Aarhus, and I feel more settled. The initial hardships taught me resilience and the importance of standing up for myself. Denmark has become a second home, and I'm excited about the opportunities ahead.